Let’s talk about birth control

I have mentioned previously that my IUD is not really working for me lately. I seem to be having a lot of side effects that may or may not be attributed to the hormones in the IUD. My skin has been awful lately as well as my mood. Add in the frequent, irritating periods and I’m just about ready to have this thing out.

I actually had a friend ask at her doctor’s appointment (we go to the same doc) if they could do such a thing at say an annual exam, you know cause they are gonna be poking around down there anyway. The answer was no. :| I’d have to make a separate appointment to have the IUD removed. Ugh. Although my husband did offer to remove it (um, yikes!) I have made an appointment for late next month.

Now my dilemma is this, what sort of birth control am I going to use in the meantime because we are so not ready to have another child right now. Prior to getting pregnant I was on the pill for 12 years and I have been researching different pill options now that I am no longer breastfeeding. The more I read the less I am inclined to want any sort of hormonal birth control. It might be time to let my body do it’s own thing and see what happens.

I’ve been racking my brain trying to determine the most appropriate form of non-hormonal birth control that would work for us. I guess I’m getting old and lazy because everything just seems like such a hassle. Of course there are condoms but I don’t consider that an option for us. Just never has been really.

So far I’ve looked at various spermicides in different forms. We briefly used the gel in between birth control and really trying to conceive and it was ok I suppose. These things can be messy and they do throw spontaneity out the window. Although with a 14 month old in the house that’s pretty much gone anyway.

I also heard that the Today Sponge was back on the market too. I know at one time that thing was all the rage in contraception. After looking at the site I’m not sure, it looks like a big ole hassle as well. What’s a girl to do?

Of course I asked my husband’s opinion and he said I should do what works best for me. Which I suppose was his way of saying he was fine with me going off any sort of hormonal birth control. Part of me wants a little more participation in the decision rather than it being all up to me. However since condoms aren’t really an option for either of us and we do want to have more children one day it is sort of left up to me by default.

Any one have any suggestions? Stories or experiences with hormonal or non-hormonal birth control options—you know logistical stories, not the other kind. :P

On a side note, did you know that Plan B is available without a prescription if you are over 17. I found this to be surprising.

5 Comments

  1. That IS surprising about Plan B.

    I’m glad you mentioned this because I’m on a mom’s listserv and there was a message today about a girl who got pregnant while using an IUD and apparently there have been three others at the same doctor’s office who have all gotten pregnant while using them (one was copper, the other three hormonal).

    I’m afraid I have no advice to offer here. The only other method I’ve used besides bcp is NFP, which can be very reliable, but it too is a PItA. I successfully managed to NOT get pregnant when I used it and then when I was ready I was also able to look at my body’s signs and know when I was fertile. But there is NO playing around with this option, obviously. You have to be super-vigilant, which frankly, just got old after a while.

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  2. I actually know four people who got pregnant on IUDs. Not to freak you out. Hubby and I use condoms unless it’s nowhere near ovulation, which is when we sometimes use the old fashioned “pull and pray” method. I can’t handle hormonal birth control. I’ve also had friends who loved their diaphragms but I can’t speak from firsthand experience on those.

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  3. I know you don’t want anything hormonal, but with Seasonale you only have 4 periods a YEAR. It’s wonderful!! Leaves lots of time for sex too!

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  4. Just yesterday I made an appointment to talk with my ob/gyn about a diaphram!!! I was going through all the birth controls and not happy about any and someone suggested a diaphram. I’m really excited about it and will fill you in in more detail after my appointment tomorrow afternoon, if you are interested.

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  5. Do you have the mirena? Because I was thinking about getting it.

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